35 Questions to Ask Your Self Before You Move On From Breaking Up to Getting the Relationship Back!

      It’s very common to hide from the pain of Breaking-Up by jumping head first into Making up, but it’s not always the smartest move.   When love or lust has you frantically plotting to get your ex- boyfriend back it’s to time take a big breath and give your potential-renewed-love a little thought.  Not all materials are recyclable, and the some goes for relationships.  Asking your self these quick questions can save you from getting stuck watching a bad re-run over and over.   You’re way better off saving your efforts for those who are truly worthy of a sequel. 

1. Does he have a new girlfriend?
2. Did we break up cause he is abusive?
3. Did he ever really make you feel good about your self?
4. Is he married?
5. Or unavailable in some other way?
6. Does he want to be with you?
7. Is he working at getting you back?
8. Does he care enough to be searching articles online about getting you back?
9. Did you brake up for a reason?
10. Was it a really good reason?
11. Is that problem solved?
12. Is the reason the relationship is broken solvable?
13. Do you really think your relationship work if you do try again?
14. Is everyone you know is ecstatic that you’re broken up?
15. Have all your friends been begging you to leave him forever?
16. Do you want VERY different things out of life?
17. Do you want the same things?
18. Do you like the same things?
19. Do you only want to get back together for the kids?
20. Does he cheat on you?
21. Did he cheat on you?
22. Will he respect you?
23. Did he hurt you?
24. Can you trust him?
25. Do you only want him back so you can break up with him?
26. Do you want him back to stop him from moving on?
27. Do you really want him back or do you just want his money back?
28. Are you really in Love?
29. Do you only want him when you can’t have him?
30. Do you know he’s bad for you?
31. Is it that you just don’t want to be single?
32. Is it only because it’s easier to get an old boyfriend back then meet a new one?
33. Do you only kinda sorta sometimes miss him?
34. Did you fight all the time?
35. Is it because you have something to prove?